Sitting through traffic for several hours a day can be quite
frustrating. The stop and go motion of the car, all the red break lights,
honking, the elevated anger surrounding you. These all take a toll on the way
our day begins and continues. I have found myself driving and my shoulders are
tense and hands are tightly gripping the wheel. I have to consciously tell
myself to relax and release the tension in my shoulders. I try to look around
me at all the cars and the people operating them. Obviously I can only have a
quick glance in to another person’s life because I have to focus on safety but
most of the time I see the same thing. People looking worn, tired and listless.
Traffic takes a toll on people. It is aggravating and puts you on edge.
I have tried to come up with ideas on how to combat traffic
fatigue because I don’t like the constant tension that I find myself in and I
feel that if I don’t take care of it early on then it will freely flow to the
rest of my day, wreaking havoc on my happiness.
First thing to do is to give yourself ample time to get
where you are going. I know that this is easier said than done. Rushing to get
things done seems to be ingrained in our existence. Maybe more so in the United
States and in the DC metro area. I have tricks that work for me but may not
work for everyone. I will share my methods and perhaps some of them will
resonate with you!
1) When the alarm goes off in the morning I do not
hit the snooze button. Boy am I tempted to sometimes! But various studies have
shown that the amount of time that the snooze button gives you is not ample for
any productive sleep so when I hear that alarm I instantly begin to stretch. A
sun salutation and a few arm circles. I like to add in a forward bend with
child’s pose to activate all of my muscles. When I’m feeling overzealous I will
take to a yoga video for 30 minutes.
2) I thank the universe for giving me another
minute, hour, day to live. There are no certainties and I could have passed on
in my sleep but I didn’t! I am here, now, today!
3) I put on a happy song, dance and sing while I
put on my work clothes. I have two dogs so I typically engage my dogs in these
silly routines. They need to feel the love too! I’ll sing to them and dance
with them and I believe that even with the passive looks on their faces, they
are actually enjoying themselves.
4) Take a brisk walk with the dogs. While I am
walking I choose to notice the beauty of the morning. This morning it was very
dark but there was this captivating wind coming from all around. The trees were
swaying in harmony and I took a moment to close my eyes and listen. Naturally
that brief moment put a smile on my face. Bring it on world!
5) While in the car I will listen to meditation
music if I am awake enough but then I will mix it up with a dose of upbeat
music and talk radio. I choose to stay away from the news in the morning and I
also steer away from traffic reports. It is what it is. I don’t want to wake up
to tragic news and hearing how jammed the entire area is won’t help to put me
in a good mood.
6) I clear my mind and look at all the different
cars and the people in them. I wonder what those people go through every day.
Some people are eating a quick breakfast while others are smoking a cigarette.
I’ve even seen people reading! I’m not judging them based on the safety of
their actions. Instead, I like to see how similar we all are. If I catch
someone’s gaze I will flash a smile or a wave. A lot of people look away
immediately and some are visibly annoyed by my chipper interaction. In fact, my
own sister doesn’t appreciate my happy morning side. I don’t know where I get
it from but it’s there!
7) If traffic is really bad I turn my attention to
my breath. Steady, deep breathing helps balance my brain and bring me back to
peace.
8) The tenseness in my shoulders and arms is
something I have to pay attention to constantly. Every ten minutes I do a body
scan to see how each part of my body is feeling. That is when I notice that I
am holding tension in a particular spot. If it’s my shoulders, I release the
tensions, roll them a few times and imagine my healing breath going straight to
the spot that needs the attention.
9) Don’t engage in the constantly shifting lanes
and getting aggressive just to pass one or two cars. It’s not worth it! If the
traffic is that bad then moving a few feet just to pass someone going gravely
slow will not change anything. It will only aggravate you more and bring back
tension. Move steadily and safely.
10) Get some fresh air if possible. Open the window
and feel nature. It’s simply refreshing.
Traffic can turn a good day in to a bad one without us even
realizing it. Let’s try to change the congestion in to something that helps
clarify our thoughts and energize us for the day ahead.
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